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My younger sister came to me today and started asking questions about our childhood. She's done this in the past before and always took what I said at face value, processed it admirably, and moved on....

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Tannie, I have a younger sister just like yours. It actually happened very publicly, right here on the forum. It's 'arrested development' It's just just as devastating to life prospects as fetal...

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Tannie that is SO sad to read honey. Your sister is obviously in denial and is publicly abusing you because it's her defense mechanism. It's just what some people do when faced with the real truth and...

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Well, when she saw that she was blocked through one venue of communication, she decided to go after my husband, a couple of my friends, and then came at me over the phone. I've warned everyone what is...

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Tannie, I send you my best thoughts and hugs. Our experience is the same, but I can't talk about it here. It's just out of our control. The jw value and education system produces people who are...

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(((HUGS)))

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How sad that your sister behaved in such a way Tannie ... it was wise to protect yourself.

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Locutus wrote:Tannie, I send you my best thoughts and hugs. Our experience is the same, but I can't talk about it here. It's just out of our control. Read More

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Tannie...the shakes will become less and less, so that's a good thing.My fence riding sister are the only one that I can dicusss how life was growing up with alcholism/relgion.  That's not a fun...

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What you're going through is just awful.  My brother and I got into it over a confrontation letter I sent to my father.  He had sexually and verbally abused me, but I brought up only the verbal abuse....

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((Tannie))It just never ends does it??!!  I am so sorry that you are the one bearing the brunt of your sisters anger..........its sad but true that those closest are usually the ones who get...

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a hard thing to do but we find strength when standing for ourselves.Time for me to shut down and prepare for another day of ...whatever.  I have faith that whatver happens...I'll take care of...

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Things have quieted down a lot since I started this thread. I'm pretty much back to normal, thanks to being able to come here and also thanks to my offline support system. My husband and I are moving...

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Sorry about that. You certainly didn't deserve that treatment. But don't lock all the doors. Someday she may be able to have an open and honest conversation about things she wishes (now) were not so....

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I would give her another chance, CeeCee, but this WAS her chance. I told her the last time she got like this that if it happened again, she would be gone from my life. A person can (and should) only...

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Tannie, it sounds like a positiveOnce any of our JW family realize we aren't playing by their dictates of ...Read More

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Tannie, People are either givers or takers.... but sometimes a" super taker" comes along. I call them "energy vampires" . It is what it is....... Tim

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I'm excited for you about your move. Sounds wonderful!

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Tim, I often refer to those type as, "Psychic Vampires".  It's all the same...they want draining our emotions because they don't know how to deal with their own.I've not had the best week, hell,...

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